There's no single relay controlling all those items - power goes from the battery to the main fusible link (the 4-fuse jobbie on the battery) to the ignition switch in the dash, to... all over the place
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this, actually save it down you'll use it. Go to 8-50, that's your ignition switch. Here you'll see:
- white +12V (3-W) coming in
- 4 lines coming out. If you look at where the lines originate in the top box, you'll see the key position. If you follow the line you'll see where power goes. That box at the bottom is the interior fusebox.
Pull ALL the fuses on interior fusebox. Now, with key=off, test for power at any fuse socket.
- If you have power the problem is before box (ignition switching issue likely)
- If you do not have power, likely someone has tied together a battery and switched +12V wire somewhere after the fusebox, introducing battery +12 to a circuit that should only have switched. Incorrect radio install is likely. You can selectively add fuses and test again to check each circuit, Eg. start by adding #19 (radio/interior light) and testing a socket.
EDIT: disclaimer I'm only so good at reading circuit diagrams so if anyone disagrees please speak up! This will only take a few minutes to test either way