Got it!! Ok, the pic is under the drivers side of the dash. the silver box is the cruise control module, the etacs module is the one located above it (And impossible to get out without dropping the fuse block). you can however see the harness that goes to it & it is easy to get at (pic 2), open the harness & find the yel-blu wire & cut it(as shown). all functions of the alarm have been disabled.
You still get the security light (green) but thats it.
After you cut the wire insulate it, re wrap the sub harness & you're done.
Now if you all will excuse me I have to splice a wire back together.