I usually just eyeball the angle the control arm is at, with the car sitting on all four wheels, before I take it apart. (On a non-lowered car, the control arm will be approximately level/parallel to the ground at normal ride height.)
Then, when the control arm goes back on, I pull the strut out of the way. Then all you have to do is the clock the control arm to the same angle it was at on the ground, and tighten it up at that position.
Torque the front control arm thru bolt to 72-87 ft lbs, and the rear bracket inner bolt to 58-72 ft lbs (short bolt), and the outer rear bracket bolt (long bolt) to 72-87 ft lbs. The two bracket nuts go to 25-34 ft lbs.
After you've got the control arm torqued, you can pull it down and swing the strut over the ball joint and let the control arm spring back into place. Torque the ball joint to 43-52 ft lbs.
Torque the pillow ball sway bar link to 25 to 33 ft lbs and you're done, and ready to go to alignment.
I usually put antisieze on the shanks of all the bolts to prevent corrosion, and a schosche of blue loc-tite on the threads to keep it all together on dirt roads. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/devil.gif