Double check that the rubber plug is still in the clutch pedal and engaging the safety switch up under the dash. If this plug is missing, the switch is open, and cruise will not activate. You will get the amber light in the control stalk, but not the green on the instrument cluster. The switch is located up under the dash, directly above the clutch pedal arm when the pedal is up all the way.
To test this theory, in the presence of a ratty rubber plug, try taping the switch down (or taping something to the clutch pedal there) and going for a test drive. Cruise only works above something like 25-35mph. If cruise now works, you've got to replace that rubber plug.
I don't feel like trying to find this part at the dealership, so my as-yet-uninstalled solution is to run a small screw/bolt through the pedal, adjust it's height with nuts, then slip a rubber vac line cap over the head to keep it from damaging the switch.
Good luck to you. There is nothing enjoyable about dicking around under the steering column. It's like a game of Twister in hell.